How to plan the perfect holiday based on your love language
Have you ever wondered why some holidays just hit different? The secret might not be in the destination itself, but in how it speaks to your heart. Dr Gary Chapman's five love languages aren't just relationship goals – they can actually be a great travel inspiration tool. Let's explore how understanding your love language can lead to your most meaningful getaway yet.
Understanding the five love languages
Think of love languages as your emotional mother tongue. Just as some people can't resist a good curry while others crave sushi, we all have different ways of expressing and feeling love. Dr Chapman's research shows that understanding these preferences can transform our relationships – and our travels.
Acts of service: Making a difference wherever you go
If someone doing the dishes makes your heart flutter more than a dozen roses, this is your love language. These travellers find joy in purposeful actions and helping others.
What it means:
- You feel most appreciated when others take action to help or support you
- Random acts of kindness give you a serious emotional boost
Your ideal holiday should incorporate ways to make a meaningful impact. You'll find the most joy in destinations that let you roll up your sleeves and contribute to local communities, where every action becomes part of a bigger purpose.
Where to stay: At Avani Sepang Goldcoast Resort in Malaysia, you can plant dragon fruit trees alongside farmers, explore traditional wooden Malay homes in rural villages, and learn traditional skills like coffee bean picking and rubber tapping – each activity offering a chance to connect with and contribute to the local community.
Receiving gifts: The art of thoughtful treasures
This isn't about being materialistic – it's about the meaning behind each token of affection. These travellers find joy in meaningful mementoes that tell a story.
What it means:
- You cherish physical symbols of love and thoughtfulness
- The effort behind a gift matters more than its monetary value
Your perfect journey should focus on destinations rich in craftsmanship and cultural significance. You'll find the most satisfaction in places where traditional artisans still practice their craft, and where each purchase carries genuine cultural significance.
Where to stay: From Avani Deira Dubai Hotel, Avani Ibn Battuta Dubai Hotel, or Avani Palm View Dubai Hotel & Suites, you'll find yourself perfectly positioned between traditional souks and modern shopping havens, each offering their own unique collection of meaningful finds waiting to be discovered.
Quality time: Undivided attention in paradise
When nothing beats uninterrupted togetherness, your perfect holiday needs to create space for genuine connection.
What it means:
- You value focused, distraction-free time together
- Shared experiences mean everything to you
The magic lies in choosing destinations that naturally encourage time spent together. The best moments often unfold in places where time seems to slow down, allowing you to fully immerse in each other's company.
Where to stay: At Avani Pemba Beach Hotel in Mozambique or Avani Quy Nhon Resort in Vietnam, you'll discover secluded beaches and intimate settings designed for undisturbed moments. These hidden gems offer the perfect backdrop for quality time, where every sunrise and sunset become your private show.
Physical touch: Wellness and connection
This love language thrives on proximity and shared sensory experiences.
What it means:
- You connect through touch and shared physical activities
- Wellness experiences feel especially meaningful
Your perfect holiday should engage all your senses. Look for destinations where physical connection and wellness intertwine, from learning ancient healing practices to experiencing traditional therapies together.
Where to stay: At Avani+ Hua Hin Resort, connect at AvaniWell, the resort's dedicated spa and wellness space. Bond through couples' massages and beachside yoga sessions - perfect for pairs who love staying active and relaxed together.
Words of affirmation: Conversations that inspire
For those who value verbal expression, the perfect destination should spark meaningful dialogue.
What it means:
- You thrive on verbal appreciation and encouragement
- Meaningful conversations fuel your connection
Your perfect trip should create opportunities for deep, meaningful exchanges. Look for destinations that naturally inspire conversation and storytelling, where each moment becomes a chance to share thoughts and create lasting memories.
Where to stay: At Avani Alonso Martínez Madrid Hotel, you'll find yourself in the heart of Spain's most conversational city. The hotel's Hidden Art Gallery and Artists' Studios Tour with local artist Maria Burgaz provides perfect opportunities for deep conversations about art, life, and love.
Your love language isn't just about relationship dynamics – it's your key to unlocking truly meaningful travel experiences. Whether you're exploring bustling cities or unwinding in secluded spots, let your emotional style guide you to your perfect destination. After all, the best holidays aren't just about where you go – they're about how you connect while you're there.
